Posted in Love, Self

Captive

Photo by Ye Jinghan on Unsplash

When you are on the other side

we are both behind bars.

Cuff me.


In response to Kristin Doherty’s one line poem prompt.Our secrets make us human
Chalkboard one line poem prompt for March 20, 2019 on Medium

Connect with me on Medium @barneydinosaur

Posted in Self

25 Perspectives On Money at 25

also published on Medium.

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  1. There’s a saying in Hong Kong that goes like this — ‘money can’t do everything (for you), but without money you can’t do anything’. When I was younger I thought this was too materialistic to say but now it starts to make sense to me.
  2. People’s perspectives on money tell you a lot about them.
  3. Be generous, in whichever way you can.
  4. Money is not a measurement of success.
  5. Money can be a measurement of progress. 
  6. ALWAYS have some savings, for you and your loved ones.
  7. When you feel lost in the present, using money as a motivation not only helps push you forward, but also helps to achieve your goal in the future.
  8. Money can equal happiness, but in the short term at maximum.
  9. Money equals happiness when you spend it (reasonably) on loved ones.
  10. Use money to make yourself a better person, not the opposite.
  11. The best investment is to invest on yourself. Keep learning.
  12. Be very careful when you make important decisions on money, even when a trusted person tells you to just go for it.
  13. Review your money movement on a regular basis. I do it monthly.
  14. Choosing money over passion is okay, but not in the long run.
  15. The way other people succeed in making money may not work for you.
  16. Every problem has a solution, including financial problems. You just have to find it.
  17. Money can’t buy health. Don’t neglect your health while making money.
  18. Believe in yourself. That’s the prerequisite of all success.
  19. Take risks, but always have a plan B in your pocket.
  20. Even if you fail, you earn because you learn.
  21. Life is about the process, not an ending balance on your bank account.
  22. If spending a little money rationally can help you recover from an emotional event, go spoil yourself. But promise not to fall down at the same place.
  23. If comparing yourself with others financially only makes you feel less, then don’t.
  24. Don’t let your paycheque be your price tag.
  25. Why work for other people’s dreams when you can live your own? 

What are your thoughts on money? I’d love to hear from you! Leave me a comment below.

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Posted in Self

Story of My Life

also published on Medium.

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#Craycray

Because someone very close to me is mentally ill, my childhood has been described as ‘crazy’ by people who know the story.

BUT I never call people with metal illness crazy and am strongly against this label — they are people with a health condition, who deserve as much respect and care as anyone else.

I’m not going to tell the whole story here, as it is still a difficult part of my life. I’m not proud of what happened to me. I’m however very proud of how I responded and became the person I am today.

#Nerrrrd

I was a typical hard working and rules following student until my university years. 

Yep, I was (am?) a nerd.

#Quitter

I’ve had 5 full time jobs in 4 years. The longest one lasted for 1.5 years and the shortest 3 weeks. I’m strongly against spending time on things which I’m not passionate about when my current condition allows a change. Some call it strong-minded, some call it wing-footed. I say both.

So yea, this is me and I’m gonna write on my blog about things I want to put it out there. If many people read it that’s great. If nobody cares, well, I’m still having fun.